Letting Go....

Hanging on is easy, letting go is hard.

It is easy for us to hang on to people, things, events, circumstances, and for a lot of us we are unaware we are doing it. What we may notice however is that we always feel two steps behind achieving our dream or having the life we dream of.

You may think you aren’t hanging on to anything, so check in with yourself by asking, “what stops me from doing what I love & following my dreams?” Your answer to this question IS the “thing” you are hanging on to.

E.g. For me, it was “The guy I loved, left me.” Bingo! Something I’m holding onto. Not him. But the him not wanting me part. The message I took from this situation was “I’m not good enough!” *wrong! I know that now.

Now that YOU know what you are holding onto, we need to find out what message, doubt or fear you have created about this person, time or event. This can take some digging, and I ask that you take the time to think about it, what subtle, subconscious message has arisen from this? sabotaging opportunities, people and events? Holding you back from reaching for your dreams or stifling a dream before it even gets the wings to fly?

My “I’m not good enough” message affected many situations, relationships and curbed many opportunities over the years. It has whirled around at the front of my mind at times, stopping me from starting something new, as this fear of not being good enough held me back. And subtly, the message was there even when I was unaware leaving a part of me hurting and feeling small. It has taken 10 years to realise that I was holding on to this message. And it isn’t easy to acknowledge the part I have played in keeping this inner message alive. It isn’t easy to look back at how things could have worked out.

Doing the inner work to clear negative thinking patterns, which clears the pathway for positive thinking takes time, commitment and honesty. It takes bravery and courage. But it is worth every minute as it gives you the chance to move forward, closer than ever to what you have always dreamed for yourself.

I ask you to forgive yourself too because if you had of known better you would have done better. You would have released this intruder thought back to the universe when it first presented itself. For it doesn’t belong nor is it welcome in your place of personal power, the kingdom of your mind.

For your mind is your most powerful tool, along with your heart, both so closely interconnected. Do not let these messages hold you back for one more day.

Free yourself from the pain, and the recurring thought. Be willing to move forward with open arms, ready to embrace new opportunities.

HOW?

You do this by replacing it with a more positive message. An affirmation of that which you are “divine, capable, loving & strong, creative, expressive, talented and wonderful” pick just one of these words to replace your old inner message, and you will be one step further along your journey of self-love and acceptance. Replace “I am not good enough” with “I am enough” or “I am deserving of true love”.

You are the master of your own mind. Be assured of this. You are in control of this, you have full control. Your mind is yours! Will you choose now as the time to start using it for your highest good?

Next, I will talk about your dreams and letting them out through the back door, to soar high in the sky, into the world of attraction, where people, places time and events will take place to give life to your dream.

But first, we must weed the garden of your mind, of past messages, and feelings of inadequacy. I know you are more than that, I know you can be that somebody. I know you have the vision of your highest self. I know you have a picture of what that dream looks like.

How much do you want this? How much will you believe?
I’m watching, I know you CAN!

Love and blessings.
Margie